~~~ Love Vs Heartbreak ~~~

‎"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer, to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy, one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness..... So when you stumble, pick yourself up! Never wait for someone to pick and get you back to life. After all, you were born alone, single and strong. Remember that." 


Have you ever faced a heartbreaking situation? You don't need to be a forlorn lover to have suffered heartbreak. People with high expectations from themselves are prone to heartbreak. I know old men and women who face heartbreak because of an irresponsible son. War-torn families struggle with heartbreaks too. Soothing words heal broken hearts and mend relationships. If you are at a loss of words, find help in these heartbreak lonely sonnets. These beautiful words help alleviate the pain of heartbreak. If you feel like, "Every song is something that I've been through or an emotion I've felt - like falling in love or heartbreak." For the most part, that message hasn't changed a lot over the years - love is still love, and heartbreak is still heartbreak. 


Heartbreak can definitely give you a deeper sensibility for writing songs. I drew on a lot of heartbreak when I was writing my first poetry, I didn't mean to but I just did. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. 


When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. Heartbreak is a blessing from God. It's just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one. Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. 


It's so curious: one can resist tears and “behave” very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses. 


“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, and irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”