Wednesday, February 8, 2012

~~~ I AM BEAUTIFUL ~~~

I wish I were a butterfly...short lived, but remembered, and always loved...
A butterfly so shy, that when you chase it, it will flutter far away, but when you stop chasing it, it will fly to you and sit softly on your shoulders...
That exactly is the same concept of love...I want to stop chasing it, instead feel it coming to me...gushing like waves towards the shore.

Love is true and eternal only when it’s unconditional.......
I read somewhere that when you want to see your face in the mirror before seeing your someone special, then you have fallen in love. When you become happy in your someone special’s happiness then you have fallen in love. If you start smiling without any reason seeing your someone special’s happiness then know that you have fallen in love. If you get tears on your someone special’s pain then understand that you have fallen in love.

I realize that is unconditional love, without any expectations or conditions...Is it true…? If that person you love is not happy being with you, would you still want to be with that person??? Knowing that you are hurting that person, and in return he is hurting you back?? NO right...?? So if partners start laying rules, conditions and expectations to so called LOVE in their lives, that love doesn’t remain unconditional any more. It becomes stale, rotten compromise. And who wants that?

If roots start rotting, leaves turn yellow and fall, no flowers bloom, the tree doesn’t fruit. Instead it stands lifeless, as if waiting for some miracle. It’s all visible to our naked eyes. But what about humans, the so called evolved species on the planet? What happens when their relationships start rotting? A very miniscule percentage of beings put an end to it and give their life a second chance. The rest just cover it up, like some makeup and polish over the anti-blemishing cream. What are they scared of…? What runs in their minds like windmill, sucking them into some whirlpool?

I have often heard one of my friends say this repeatedly to me:
“I did not mean to hurt, so why must I be hurt??? Is this why they say, life is unfair....???
Then I really want to go...far away, a place where nobody recognizes me ....and never return...”

And I often end up repeating her the same monologue:
Because it proves that opposite attracts like MAGNETS...
It proves that there need no be perfectness in love...The flawed one is just as good
Love comes knocking into your heart at the time you least expect it, sometimes with the person you least expect....
You don't have to talk and say it all out... Your eyes can do the talking, the expressions can to the talking...Behind those smoldering eyes, you see a world of dark passion brewing, simmering, and just waiting for the right time....
Importantly, love is, or teaches you that...the person you want to be without the most is the person you need to be with the most....
It’s not important to be with the person you love, but, with the person who loves you. If your love is returned by the same person you love, you are the luckiest.
You don't need to say it, just show it...

And if you are ready to love unconditionally, TRUE LOVE will find you somehow...

After saying all I would recur myself saying that I wish I were a butterfly...short lived, but remembered, and always loved…because I AM BEAUTIFUL

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